The first category We created to control and take over the land was "man" and "animal", next was "man" and "woman". In modern times however we have categories such as race, class, religion, etc. We have been ascribing to these contrasts for thousands of years distracting us from the source energy- God energy, that is neither male or female. When we connect to source energy we are able to connect to each other on a deeper level. When we are connected to source energy we are also connected to both our "feminine side" and "masculine side" as a way to better understand our existence.