Human life is a gift in which we are all on display in order to be of service to others. Sometimes because of pain that we've experienced our understanding of love is shaped through fear. It is important that when we speak to one another that we speak from a place of support and empathy. We have the tendency more often to speak from our child-self and to react rather than respond when triggered. Love becomes buried under self doubt and self hate when we do not confront the intergenerational trauma and post traumatic slave syndrome in our lives. Love must not be illustrated through suffering but through compassion. Compassion means to suffer with. Embodying love means to be in tune with your god-self and connect to your neighbor with true emotions. Freedom of expression is how love is manifested through our language. How can we unbind our loving style so that it is unchained from the isms of our society? When we love our partners, children, relatives with barriers and constraints we are also loving ourselves with those same restrictions.Read More
Remember you are worth the title. Be assertive and self aware. You will be miserable if you allow them to continue to be your non-committed partner. If this person is worth it, make sure they know that you want to be their girlfriend. Say to yourself, 'either they're fully with me or I'm gone'. Then you need to really leave. Be with the person who sees your god-self and wants to capture you and protect you for fear of someone else capturing you.Read More
The first category We created to control and take over the land was "man" and "animal", next was "man" and "woman". In modern times however we have categories such as race, class, religion, etc. We have been ascribing to these contrasts for thousands of years distracting us from the source energy- God energy, that is neither male or female. When we connect to source energy we are able to connect to each other on a deeper level. When we are connected to source energy we are also connected to both our "feminine side" and "masculine side" as a way to better understand our existence.
We approach love as if its something we seek to conquer or enclose in a vial to be worn around our neck; when all the while love is in ourselves. Who we are sets the stage for how we love.Read More